Recent content by jimmysgirl

im not attacking anyone im stating a fact. once you choose to have a child with someone, you are tied to that other person for the next 18 yrs. they better get used to the fact that that person, if they chose, will be part of the child's life.they dont get to decide after the fact that the op...

you are really overstepping your bounds here. the kids have only one mother, and its not you. if MOM makes an issue of this,your husband can kiss custody goodbye. judges dont like stepparents who overstep their bounds, and refering to the kids as my son my daughter, and our daughter is...

we dont. no judge is going to give your grandmother custody of your fiance.she isnt even legally related to him,so she has no standing to sue anyone in his family for custody. besides, his father is first in line for custody of he's taking out of his mother's care, not your grandmother. if you...

your ex is dad your husband is not unless you can prove him unfit or a danger to the child, theres nothing you can do.you chose him as your child's father, and he has as many rights as you. and btw, your ex is this child's ONLY daddy. your husband is a legal stranger. a judge wont be pleased...

talk to daughter even if her daughter is proven unfit, the child's father has greater rights to the child then grandma does. she can ask her daughter to sign temp custody or guardianship over to her( both require the father's permission)

she might or she might not the only thing you can do is ask the grandfather if he is willing to sign custody over to you, if he says no, then its no. she doesnt decide who to live with untill shes 18, and you have no legal standing to do anything where she is concerned, she isnt your child...

the time to decide wether or not a man is good father material is BEFORE you lay down and concieve a child with him. if he is the father, he will have as many rights to the child as you. you better get used to the idea of him being in the child's life if he is proving to be the father. theres...

you chose him as your kid's dad then you should have chosen someone else to be your son's father. instead, you chose him. he will get visitation, and unless you can prove hes a danger to the child, you better get used to the idea of him visiting.

i suggest you leave this alone, before you get charged with interfering with custody. unless her mother agrees, she will not be moving in with her bf or anyone else.she stays where she is untill shes 18. period.

hes at fault he is at fault. he came on your property uninvited and ignored the warning signs. file a trespassing complaint against him. and if he persists, you might consider getting a restraining order against him.

i was a step who butted out and mmob as a former stepparent, i dont have a problem with sp's, but i was a step who knew when to mind my own business and not get involved, or think i have a right to get involved, in my husbands legal batttles concerning HIS kids like i see a lot of steps...

you dont matter here, as the stepparent, you have no say in this matter. you should not be inserting yourself in ths situation, because this is not your child. let mom work it out

WE can do nothing. if dad has a problem with it, he can speak to mom( NOT bio mom, but mom) about it. make sure his daughter knows how to contact someone in case of emergency, and not to tell anyone who calls that mom is not home, have her take a message, and tell the caller mom will return her...

there is no we then since you understand you have no rights, you need to drop the WE from your vocabulary. the only WE were this child is concerned is your husband(dad) and his ex( mom). THEY have joint custody of THEIR child, you have no custody at all ( and never will) THEY have first...

no she cannot move without her parents permission. and she will not be emancipated so she can live with her adult bf. period end of story. she stays where she is, newither of you have a choice. and if you push the issue of trying to get her out of her house, her parents can cause you a lot...