- Jurisdiction
- Kansas
My ex and I have what I thought was a pretty black and white parenting plan. But this week he decided to throw me for a loop. He told me on Monday that he was planning on taking our child out of state for Labor Day weekend (this weekend). I started by telling him i didn't want him to giving the pandemic and the CDC recommendations for avoiding travel. He told me that he gets to make the decision because it's his weekend, which it is his weekend. I then told him that per our agreement that he was supposed to give me 30 days notice, and he instead was giving me 4. He claims this doesn't count because it is not a "vacation" it is a "trip." Mind you the "trip" is a 12 hour drive and 4 states away. Our agreement also says he gets a max of 14 days per year for vacation time and they exceeded it earlier this year by taking a 17 day vacation, that he also considers a "trip" because it was to see family, so it shouldn't count. After I disagreed with him, he refused to talk with me any more about it. He emailed me a few minutes ago telling me he would be picking our child up after school today and taking him on the trip regardless of what I say.
My question is, am I in the wrong about this? And if not, what action should I take? My lawyer is already off for the weekend, so I can't contact him.
My question is, am I in the wrong about this? And if not, what action should I take? My lawyer is already off for the weekend, so I can't contact him.