Again like i told the other commenter dont assume if you are unsure just ask it takes longer to assume something than to acually ask. I have plenty of options out of state where im planning on leaving to. Ya im not well off like they are but neither is over half of aerica and last i checked the has nothing to do with parenting. As long as they are cared for, shelter,a safe and loving environment and all needs are met not wants needs then that should be all that matters.They are no more better off with her than they are with me.. Thanks for your assumptions but not one i will lean towards.It sounds like the kids are best off with their grandparents until you get yourself established somewhere. if you take them out of state you are getting into a situation where you are not able to care for them and may end up losing them for good.
Why not go ahead and move where you want to go, establish employment and a steady residence, and at the same time work with the court and obtain a custody order that compels your mother to return the children to you.