sailboat111
New Member
I am a 30 yr old female who has been married for 10 yrs with 2 children. Before I got married (at a young age) and started a family, I knew I was attracted to women. In fact, I told my husband if I hadn't married him, I would be gay. Over the years, I learned that my husband, who is almost a decade older than me, has a horrible temper, is verbally abusive, and controlling. I have always fantasized about women, never men. Slowly but surely my feelings are being confirmed. Here I am completely unhappy, wanting a separation, and not knowing how to go about it. I resent him for all that he has done and i feel stuck. Do I say I am gay or do I not for fear of losing my children. What are my rights? What is the best way to go about separating? Someone please help me!