I was wondering if it is legal for my wife to deny me the right to see my son? We are still married & have not takin any legal actions like seperation, divorce, or custody battle. I'm stationed in Virginia for the military & she's living with her aunt, uncle, & new boyfriend. With us still being completely legaly married & my name on the birth certificete I should have all legal rights to see my son. She is telling me I cant see him until the courts order it & that'll take to long. I will be deploying soon & would like to at least get him for the weekend or the time I'm on leave. What legal actions can I take aside from taking it to court to get her to let me see my son?