First let me state that I am paying child support and our son is 7 years old(going on 90). Mother & I are separated (not through the courts). Over the summer I had had him for 2 weeks straight in July and August. Mike (our son) expressed to me that he wanted to come stay with me. I did not respond but thought I have to prepare to have more time with him. I talked with his mom and split the time that way he could not miss one or the other. We BOTH talked to him and he was great with the idea. September started and as per our agreement I also had him Monday & Tuesdays along with alternate weekends. Mom is upset because because of my recent involvement and does not like the fact that our son gets along with her. He also tells Mom he wants to stay with me. This morning she tells me that she is sticking to the original agreement (alternate weekends). I haven't called back to speak with our son who is expecting me to come get him. Advice on all fronts. Do I call him and make up an excuse why I'm not coming to get him? Can she do this? I know the other obvious answer is for me to go to court and get it documented by the court, but assume it will be a battle at this point. In the interim can I get an immediate action in place for what we already established? I can prove this is what was already in place. I just need a starting point and what I might be able to do IMMEDIATELY so my son and I won't suffer. Please advise.