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My ex is taking me back to court again for him to get custody. The last time he dropped it as we were ordered into mediation. I have taken ALL the steps the mediator suggested and the ex and I were communicating better..........or so I thought. Our 7yr old has food allergies as well as stomach...

Background info- 9yr old has been seeing psychologist since she was 5 for the emotional abuse her father puts her through. (Everything from "I don't want you" to "I want your mother to die" and more.) He has had 3 Emergency order of protection. 1 in 2007 for emotional abuse, 1 in 2010 for...

My ex doesn't want our oldest to come to his house any more for his weekends. the 9yr old says she is fine with this and she never wants to see him again. I don't know what went on but shes not talking and ex says she "hurt his and his wifes feelings". My kids just got back from a 2week visit...

My current husband makes enough to support us all. Just not the extras, like tutoring. I currently can not get a job because of the issues my children have. The oldest one 9 has anger issues, seperation anxiety (including when she's at school. I have to tell her where I'll be or she will freak...

jan. 2010 i was taken back to court so ex husband could get "more time" with kids.(2 kids) I have sole custody and he has visitation rights. Was done this way because he and I can not communicate very well. (He thinks he's always right and I need to bend to his wants and will.) I was absolutely...

At first I was footing the drive most of the way all the time for safety reasons. He was threatening me, so was his wife. The judge ordered him last year to split the drive evenly. I was responsible for drop off to his home, he is responsible for bringing them back home. The judge told him...

The order doesn't state anything about miles. I was told the first time we went to court that I have to stay within the state or within a distance that wouldn't interupt parenting time. This won't.

My ex husband and I live roughly an hour away from each other. My husband got a really nice job but further away. Currently we do drop offs on friday and he drops off on sunday. I have full legal and physical custody. We are NOT moving out of the state, but would like to know how far we can move...

Lets say paternity is established. They were never married and ex kept him from the child for 4 years. He never knew an address or phone number just the state she was in because of myspace/ facebook/ so-called friends. That little girl has a half sister through my husband and me. My husband...

The court date is on August 20th. My husband talked to ex and she still wants him to sign away rights to the kid. He's not sure yet which would be best for the kid but wants things done before court. If he signs on then off BEFORE the court date can he get out of back child support? If he...

He's not worried. We just wanted to know could he sign over his rights to her husband. (The one the kid knows as daddy.) My husband helps raise my 2 children from another marriage and we also have a 2yr old daughter. So we already have 3 girls another one won't make a difference. He is a...

Husband lives in il. Husband's ex lives in IA. Ok, before me the ex and my husband were together sort of, for a period of 6months during which she got pregnant. She was constantly going from michigan to illinois and back again during the time they were together. He found out she was with...

no limitations on moving in the papers at all. I was just told that I can't move out of state without the courts approval. I wasn't ever told where I could or couldn't move and it's not in the papers. My papers are only about 5 pages long. I've looked through them and have them almost memorized...

I'm mom of 2 girls with ex. I have full physical and legal custody. He only has visitation. I am constantly getting threatened with all sorts of things from both ex and ex's wife. My husband and I live a little over an hour away from him. We want to move closer to husbands job. (we live about...

My question is that I received a phone call from my ex girlfriend today in regards to my daughter, to whom I have no legal ties to, not even on the birth certificate. I have only seen my daughter a total of 3 times since she was born and one of them happened to be only brief. The question is...