Its a long storey, let me start by saying me and my husband have been married for 14 years and have 4 children together. About ten years ago my husband commited a crime(was not a minor) and is now a sex offender. All these years later and we are having issues with my teenage daughter who is 14. She stealing, lying, and acting out. She lies so bad that I dont know what to believe anymore. She tells people in school (and parents) that she is pregnant...which she is not. Even to the exteme of telling them when she is due and having a girl. She says she makes herself throw up, and cuts. A lot of what I have noticed is she tries to take something someone has and makes it hers. I dont know if this is something mentally wrong with her. Well thing is I let her get on facebook so she started talking to many people. I found out through other people that she is saying that she has been molested since she was 5 or 6 by her dad. Her and I write notes back and fourth and I was trying to get it out of her and she eventually she told me this..I believe because my friend told her she would have to tell me if she did not. When she told me, I asked my husband to leave until we got her checked out. He did, the very next day CPS was called out. I told the lady all whats going on, and all I wanted to know was the truth. I was not siding with anyone. This is my daughter and I would hate to think she would lie on her own dad like this. CPS suggested taking her to her pediatrician someone who knows her, but I also had to of course take her to a OBGYN, cause she also at the time told me she had sex with one other boy. At either dr, nothing was found. I talked with a juvenile detective and he suggested giving my husband a poly graph test. I was like....thats great. My husband willng went and took the test. He passed it. Was told he could come home. That very night after my boys practice (we all went except my daughter who was grounded for the theift) She was acting goofy, I was like are U on drugs, joking said it but thats really what it seemed like. That night she gives me a notebook. I put it aside cause sad to say everything she was telling me...about the one boy..turns out many boys. She stole from me. Took off on me while her dad was away. She keeps saying she wanted to leave and live with someone else. Later that night before I went to bed..I read the notebook and it said, he did it again and I cant take it anymore. Not that time really matters on whether its true or not he was alone maybe 10 min when my nephew came back to our house. That next day at work, my husband called saying police came took cushions, her clothing she was wearing. she is claiming he raped her. CPS took all my kids from me. Saying I did nothing. my daughter is claiming that he said to her he took medications to relax himself to pass the test. In her note to me she said Erika( her cousin, her newfound best friend) says there are ways to pass it. Alot dont add up to me. Because he is a sex offender they are using that against him. IF there was any proof they would have already came to arrest him. I am not sure what to do and how do I get my kids back. My husband says if it came down to it, he would move out and sign his rights over to me. but will that be enough. Any help would greatly be appreciated. They sent her for a psych evaluation...Oh yeah cause she was saying she was going to kill herself, and did start cutting herself. ....Need my kids, they are my world. HELP ME! Worries mother!
Also my daughter stealing episode, she is facing a felony charge.
Also my daughter stealing episode, she is facing a felony charge.