Well, I did hire a lawyer for him. The first charge of having a gun was thrown out as were a couple of lesser charges. The search was done not with a warrant, but because the police intimidated grandson's wife into opening the safe, which was not hers, not on her property or where she lived.
That is why I am assuming it was an illegal search.
Yes, it is a mess, but I am trying to do all I can to help as I do not want him going away for the rest of his life. He and his wife have a 7 year old boy and I don't want to see his life ruined.
I'm putting out 25k for the lawyer. This is my grandson's last chance, and I am willing to do what I can to help. Neither of his parents (divorced when he was 8) have ever done anything to help this kid. They are self-absorbed, narcissist people who have always favored the younger son. Almost as if they are punishing the older boy for being born, as mom was pregnant at the time. It has always made me sick to see what they have done to him. They even threw him under the bus when he was 13 and he took the neighbor's pony for a ride without permission. They put him in the so-called juvenile justice system and put him in that wagon train program that killed a couple of kids and abused many more. From then on, anything that happened was always blamed on him, and his own father (my son) even pinned the blame on him for stealing a diamond necklace, which I had found under the younger boy's mattress when he was staying with me! They didn't want the younger boy to be "in the system".
I live out of state, and they "gave" the older boy to me at one time. Mama said she 'just couldn't handle him" or the younger one, but decided at the last minute to keep the younger boy.
Like the blueprints were drawn to predict my grandson's fate. He is ADHD, very intelligent, and very loving. I do not excuse his bad choices, but I do understand, to some degree, why he made them.
He has never been accused of a violent act, so I do not believe this story about him sticking a gun in someone's face for a 100.00 debt. He is not that stupid.
What would you do under the circumstances?