Miranda
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This is some f***ed up stuff right here. All this in the span of 15 months? Whatever judge signed off on an adoption a year after the child's birth mother attempted suicide should be removed from office immediately. Given that the relationship ended only three months after the adoption happened, it is obvious that whoever investigated the matter did an awful job. Of course, all this is beside the point.
THANK YOU! I have told my ex that his attorney was stupid and he was stupid for letting a woman he barley knew adopt his child! Wish there was a way to prove that it was done in a wrong manner. I talk to the bio mom and she says she was threatened to sign her rights away but not sure if it would matter now if she tried to fight it. We've been trying to find loop holes! And yes that is why I've fought and fought for my step daughter because she has been throwing so much!!
First of all, who exactly do you think is going to read the custody order regarding your ex and his prior wife? Second, the only way anyone would think that about you is if the order contains findings of fact regarding you and abuse or is a complete idiot and makes wholly unwarranted assumptions.
I see your point there. It says nothing about me being abusive.
Ok, then retain an attorney to draft a modification, get your ex to sign off, and submit it to the court. Probably no reason actually to appear in court.
I plan to retain an attorney. Just have to wait on the money. My attorney already know what's going on but she cannot do anything until I pay her.
No...not having the money to fight does not require one to agree. He could have said, "no, I don't and won't agree, but I'm not going to agree." Had he done that, she'd have had to prove a factual basis for the no-contact order
I just really mean that she took advantage of him not having money and knew he would give up and he gave up on his kids.
idk how the court "made" you guys get married. That makes no sense at all you had to be married to be around his other kids.
His attorney told us that if we didn't get married within 30 days after their order was signed he could be held in contempt of court for me being around the kids. I didn't know the rules and didn't know I could say no that's not happening.
No one sees their custody order but them so no one will think you're abusive. It's not like everyone sees it.
It's it's on the public court documents. That's the only way I know it says that.
He wasn't made to agree to anything. He chose not to figure out a way to find the means to fight for his children. It's that simple. Guys who say they had no choice didn't bother to try.
you're so right there. He just didn't want to care anymore and gave up. He hasn't seen our two children but maybe 3 times since October.
THANK YOU! I have told my ex that his attorney was stupid and he was stupid for letting a woman he barley knew adopt his child! Wish there was a way to prove that it was done in a wrong manner. I talk to the bio mom and she says she was threatened to sign her rights away but not sure if it would matter now if she tried to fight it. We've been trying to find loop holes! And yes that is why I've fought and fought for my step daughter because she has been throwing so much!!
First of all, who exactly do you think is going to read the custody order regarding your ex and his prior wife? Second, the only way anyone would think that about you is if the order contains findings of fact regarding you and abuse or is a complete idiot and makes wholly unwarranted assumptions.
I see your point there. It says nothing about me being abusive.
Ok, then retain an attorney to draft a modification, get your ex to sign off, and submit it to the court. Probably no reason actually to appear in court.
I plan to retain an attorney. Just have to wait on the money. My attorney already know what's going on but she cannot do anything until I pay her.
No...not having the money to fight does not require one to agree. He could have said, "no, I don't and won't agree, but I'm not going to agree." Had he done that, she'd have had to prove a factual basis for the no-contact order
I just really mean that she took advantage of him not having money and knew he would give up and he gave up on his kids.
idk how the court "made" you guys get married. That makes no sense at all you had to be married to be around his other kids.
His attorney told us that if we didn't get married within 30 days after their order was signed he could be held in contempt of court for me being around the kids. I didn't know the rules and didn't know I could say no that's not happening.
No one sees their custody order but them so no one will think you're abusive. It's not like everyone sees it.
It's it's on the public court documents. That's the only way I know it says that.
He wasn't made to agree to anything. He chose not to figure out a way to find the means to fight for his children. It's that simple. Guys who say they had no choice didn't bother to try.
you're so right there. He just didn't want to care anymore and gave up. He hasn't seen our two children but maybe 3 times since October.
