Nicholas56
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- Jurisdiction
- New York
In NY nursing home my mom was admitted after being discharged from 3 hospitals with ecoli in stomach they sent her home as outpatient but she never got a chance to get to dr because next week she was hospitalized again for uti and sepsis. nursing home stopped her meds against my wishes as health proxy. They bandaged her hands a few times because she ripped out the ivs that were hurting her and her hands were constantly swollen. She got edema in her legs so they swelled up both swollen legs and hands were ignored for over 8 hrs along with her diaper not being changed. Due to Covid she lost her 20 days of rehab and they stopped trying to help her walk. They weren't helping her clean her dentures so she got thrush. Which caused her to stop eating. She got weak and slept a lot. In august after telling me 3x they were going to push a heavy dose of antibiotics but never did they talked me into comfort care and were pushing morphine on me which i declined and next day mom died her room was emptied the next morning and all the nursing home does now is contact my brother saying they will sue him for money owed because we as kids are responsible to pay it even tho waiting on probate which they know about. She told me more than once they were mean to her and did something to her and asked us to save her. At times they either withheld water from her or put it across the room from her knowing she couldn't walk.
I don't know if this is a case of wrongful death or neglect or not and before I talk to an attorney here I want to know if I even should as all there is is medical paperwork they have please give some advice
Thank you
I don't know if this is a case of wrongful death or neglect or not and before I talk to an attorney here I want to know if I even should as all there is is medical paperwork they have please give some advice
Thank you