Dec. 2003 my son found out he was the father of a 3 year old boy -- from an ex-girlfriend. She was separated from her husband at the time my son & her were dateing. My son & her broke up (in early 2000) & we never heard from her until this past Dec. when she called & said she couldn't take care of him & asked my son if he wanted him? He took him & had the DNA done & everything legalized for full custody.
When she called my son she did not have him -- her husband had him & he thought he was the father. After a few weeks she did get him & she gave him to my son then. (It turned out she was just trying to hurt her husband; & useing my grandson as a "pawn".)
Anyways; what I need to know is: what can I do if something should happen to my son (I hate thinking about it but....it something that I need to do).
my grandson & son lives with me; so I am helping to raise him. He has adjusted living here well --- He has never even asked for his mother or her ex-husband "his dad" for his first 3 years of life.)
I think he was just passed around so much he got use to it.
Anyways; is there something I could do so I would have full custody; in an event that something happened to my son. I love my grandson so much I wouldn't want to lose him. His mother signed him over saying she needs help --- she uses drugs & she does need mentally helped. (she told the Judge this herself too)
I don't want losing him to her or her family -- they never call to ask how he is or anything; it's like if he doesn't even exists to them. Thank you.
When she called my son she did not have him -- her husband had him & he thought he was the father. After a few weeks she did get him & she gave him to my son then. (It turned out she was just trying to hurt her husband; & useing my grandson as a "pawn".)
Anyways; what I need to know is: what can I do if something should happen to my son (I hate thinking about it but....it something that I need to do).
my grandson & son lives with me; so I am helping to raise him. He has adjusted living here well --- He has never even asked for his mother or her ex-husband "his dad" for his first 3 years of life.)
I think he was just passed around so much he got use to it.
Anyways; is there something I could do so I would have full custody; in an event that something happened to my son. I love my grandson so much I wouldn't want to lose him. His mother signed him over saying she needs help --- she uses drugs & she does need mentally helped. (she told the Judge this herself too)
I don't want losing him to her or her family -- they never call to ask how he is or anything; it's like if he doesn't even exists to them. Thank you.
