Ok long story so here we go. My ex boyfriend has 6 children, 4 with his ex-wife, 1 with an ex girlfriend, and mine. His parents have custody of the 4 in Henryetta, the ex girlfriend has his daughter in Norman and i have our son here in Tulsa where he lives. *Note that i'm not supposed to have children so the fact i even got pregnant was a big deal for me, that's why i really didn't mind that he had so many.
Well he's violated our agreement that he see our son once a month and i won't file child support. Our son is 14 months. He wasn't there when he was born, and he's only seen our son maybe 10 times if that since he's been born and 5 were in the first 3 months because of the birth certificate, and his oldest daughters birthday. So this fathers day, he forgot our son again. I got upset and told him I'm done giving you time I'm going to file. He got upset and informed me that he's just going to give up his right and make sure that my son is not allowed to have anything with his side of the family.
This is an issue for us because his mother has a heart problem and it's stated in her will that if something happens to her then i will be the guardian of the 4 she has custody of because we're close and i see the other 4 more than him or his ex-wife do. We were going to have me move in with them after i finished school for a year so that way i could legally be the step-mother guardian in case either of the childrens parents wanted to contest the will. Now we can't do that if I'm not allowed to see or talk to my step kids.
His parents want to adopt me so then i am allowed to see the kids but my parents won't go for that. So what are my options? How can i still let my son have a relationship with his siblings and his grandparents
Well he's violated our agreement that he see our son once a month and i won't file child support. Our son is 14 months. He wasn't there when he was born, and he's only seen our son maybe 10 times if that since he's been born and 5 were in the first 3 months because of the birth certificate, and his oldest daughters birthday. So this fathers day, he forgot our son again. I got upset and told him I'm done giving you time I'm going to file. He got upset and informed me that he's just going to give up his right and make sure that my son is not allowed to have anything with his side of the family.
This is an issue for us because his mother has a heart problem and it's stated in her will that if something happens to her then i will be the guardian of the 4 she has custody of because we're close and i see the other 4 more than him or his ex-wife do. We were going to have me move in with them after i finished school for a year so that way i could legally be the step-mother guardian in case either of the childrens parents wanted to contest the will. Now we can't do that if I'm not allowed to see or talk to my step kids.
His parents want to adopt me so then i am allowed to see the kids but my parents won't go for that. So what are my options? How can i still let my son have a relationship with his siblings and his grandparents