My divorce has been delayed longer than I thought it would be. We have been seperated for almost 8 years and I have been with the love of my life for over 2 years now. In Jan of this year we decided to proceed with wedding plans thinking the divorce would be finalized in time, turns out it wont be. My question to you is, is it legal to follow through with a "commitment ceremony" as long ass no legal paperwork has been filed, before the divorce is final?