Married for over 20 years. Husband won't allow my name on Bank account or give me any money for household items for family use, gas money to take our child to school, etc. Locks his vehicle at night so I can't get in it, etc., etc. I guess my main question is: Can't I LEGALLY sell any of our Marrital Assets/Possesions if I need money since they are half mine anyway? How do I find out if he is hiding money in other bank accounts or savings, etc.? What can I do to find out what all he is hiding? Is there any way to check this information online for free? I can't afford a Private Investigator. Also, he has acquired a daily whiskey drinking problem the last few years and gets verbally abusive frequently but I don't suspect cheating. We may very well end up in divorce court so I need to know what I should be doing NOW to prepare myself just in case. Thanks in advance for any advice!