My husband had an affair with a financial planner that worked at a large bank. She is a relative on his side of the family. The affair was long distance and fairly brief- it began around his fathers deathbed and funeral. She was there, I had to be home with the kids.
In order to pay for the dates she assisted him in opening a secret credit card, through her employer, which they had mailed to her home address.
My parents have a large investment account with the same bank (a different location). My mother sent a letter to their corporation and the manager of the Other Woman's branch. The letter was stating the affair and the credit card matter, which we felt was unethical professional behavior on her part. She knew right along with my husband that it would be paid through a joint account, as she knows I'm a homemaker to 4 kids.
She ended up terminated. The termination happened after she was given a copy of the complaint letter. The letter contained my mothers identity, and it was discovered that the woman used her computer to look into my parents bank account. That was the cause of termination, and not the original complaint about the dishonest credit card.
She quickly got another job as a Fiinancial Planner at a different large bank. I want to inform that bank of her actions at her previous job, through a letter. Maybe an anonymous letter? Will that get me in trouble? She has contacted the police because I sent her a few non threatening, but angry emails and a few phone messages. She has never responded directly to me. Her police report amounted to nothing. The police just phoned me at home (we live in different states), and quickly backed off when I told them the illicit background. Shouldn't I be allowed to report the incident that got her terminated to her new employer, since she has the capacity to do it again? Does my ill feelings towards her make a difference in the law? If I have since filed for divorce, does that make a difference?
In order to pay for the dates she assisted him in opening a secret credit card, through her employer, which they had mailed to her home address.
My parents have a large investment account with the same bank (a different location). My mother sent a letter to their corporation and the manager of the Other Woman's branch. The letter was stating the affair and the credit card matter, which we felt was unethical professional behavior on her part. She knew right along with my husband that it would be paid through a joint account, as she knows I'm a homemaker to 4 kids.
She ended up terminated. The termination happened after she was given a copy of the complaint letter. The letter contained my mothers identity, and it was discovered that the woman used her computer to look into my parents bank account. That was the cause of termination, and not the original complaint about the dishonest credit card.
She quickly got another job as a Fiinancial Planner at a different large bank. I want to inform that bank of her actions at her previous job, through a letter. Maybe an anonymous letter? Will that get me in trouble? She has contacted the police because I sent her a few non threatening, but angry emails and a few phone messages. She has never responded directly to me. Her police report amounted to nothing. The police just phoned me at home (we live in different states), and quickly backed off when I told them the illicit background. Shouldn't I be allowed to report the incident that got her terminated to her new employer, since she has the capacity to do it again? Does my ill feelings towards her make a difference in the law? If I have since filed for divorce, does that make a difference?
