- Jurisdiction
- Virginia
My ex is currently dating a man for more than 3 years now. His mail is delivered to her house, he keeps his motorcycle there, and is frequently there. Recently, he gave her a black diamond ring as a symbol of "commitment" (her words). She also told me, commitment means we are committed to each other without sharing a bank account and without living with each other (which means she read the legal requirements for maintaining her alimony payment from me). I feel like this is gaming the system, and a reasonable judge would see right through this and relinquish me of the alimony requirements. I am probably just dreaming, but I am wondering if anyone out there has any thoughts on this and if she is just gaming the system as I have coined it. Please let me know your thoughts or advice. Thanks.