Moved out of state w/fiance. To protect child from being in the middle of a nasty court battle, I agreed to switch to NCP w/ out of state visitation. We moved back after 3 years. We've been back for a year now, with ex giving us a "verbal" visitation sched. I would like to have more, like 40%...every other weekend, every school break (spring, fall, long weekends), all summer (letting ex have every other weekend) and rotate Thanksgiving and Christmas. I'm a stay at home mom, with 23 mos. natural triplets. I think it would benefit my child since she now has a new step dad (we married up North), new siblings and having a mom that is around all of the time. I know I will never get Primary back. Do I have a chance of getting this arrangement, b/c I KNOW my ex will not agree to it, he's quite angry that we moved back and he has to give me anything at all...just a tad bitter...still. :duel: