childsupport
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After reading many of the listings pertaining to child support issues I can come to only 1 conclusion, we need help!! It is said that 24,000 men a year has been said to commit suicide due to the powerlessness they feel from the effects of their support obligations. Many of these obligations are offensive. There is a recurring theme of the threads I have read in here about child support and that is that the system is flawed. It is said, "the system is not perfect." That is a cop-out. Just as the non-custodial parent needs to take responsibility for their child the system needs to take responsibility for the faults. The courts and judgments are biased and their collection tactics are ludicrous, we can't collect the money that is owed so let's suspend all licensing and make it impossible to pay. The only ones who seem to be winning in these matters are the lawyers. We are advocates for those that are damaged due to unfair court orders regarding child support The circumstances of an initial unfair order can instantly take a person homeless making it even more difficult to pay. Attorneys won't take the case without the money part of the agreement...Thousands of men skip the country every year, as well, to get out of the suffocating circumstances.The snowball grows and grows until it is so overwhelming that it seems that there is no help. We are fighting these things alone. We are overpowered and out numbered. The initial statement is "dead beat" I am sorry but to dehumanize someone is a characteristic of war. Now that they are known as dead beats they are no longer human and we can attack them without feeling. It is time that we join forces to find the balance between greed and the welfare of the child!! Individually we don't stand a chance. Together we can find the solutions that will be feasible for all parties concerned. Those that are collecting these unfair orders are not benefiting when the order can't be met. No one is the winner until livable terms can be met....We are not attorneys and cannot offer legal advice. We are others that have been subject to the damages of an unfair order. We welcome all that want to find reasonable solutions to these matters. Fathers, Mothers, Grandparents, the more the merrier, As a citizen of the U.S. this is a concern....Send us an E-mail with a brief summary of your interest and we will get back to you.