Help! I am a single girl who recently had to start paying child support. I live very modestly with a roomate and have a son who is living the majority of his time with his father at this time. My sons father is married and makes significantly more than I do. He lives in a home where I am in an apartment in which I share a bedroom with my son. I am paying 25% of my net income to my son's father and while he is living lavishly I am barely getting by financially. I am late on bills and in need of medical care that I cannot afford. Any suggestions on how to help my situation or get these payments reduced? Please I am in need of help!