soconfused
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Hi. This isn't actually for me. It's for a very close friend of mine. I feel that he has an attorney that is just not doing right by him. His divorce has been going on for about 2 years. He wanted it to go smoothly so he tried to be nice at first. The house they lived in is owned by a family member of his and so he stayed there for awhile. There is also a young child involved so that was cause to stay as well. About 7 or 8 months ago he moved out, but only across the street into his mothers house. She was the one that actually sued him for divorce about a year ago and had him served. The emails have gone back and forth between the attorneys, but nothing is ever settled. Meanwhile he is paying all the bills for the house that she is still living in. Finally a few weeks ago I asked him what is going on. His lawyer had told him 3 weeks ago that they would be able to get mediation, but then that came and went. Now his lawyer sent out a letter basically saying that they have to answer their complaint with support of why they sued in a timely manner, and told him that they have 30 days in which to answer this complaint, and if they don't then his lawyer can file and RJI with the court and then they can get a court date. He said he cannot just file for a date, and he cannot sue her for divorce while waiting for them to answer the complaint. Is all this right?
It seems strange to me that all this time has passed and this lawyer didn't do anything to move this forward - that three weeks went by with him saying that its going to be in mediation, and then that never happened. Is he just taking my friend for a ride and taking his money, or is this really how the process goes.
If anyone could shed any light on this I would really appreciate it. I would like to be able to show him the responses so he can see for himself that either his lawyer is actually doing his job, or that he is just a bad lawyer.
Thanks!!
It seems strange to me that all this time has passed and this lawyer didn't do anything to move this forward - that three weeks went by with him saying that its going to be in mediation, and then that never happened. Is he just taking my friend for a ride and taking his money, or is this really how the process goes.
If anyone could shed any light on this I would really appreciate it. I would like to be able to show him the responses so he can see for himself that either his lawyer is actually doing his job, or that he is just a bad lawyer.
Thanks!!