JiggyPopPhantom
New Member
- Jurisdiction
- Florida
Here's the deal at my upmost honesty:
Back in March my kid(6yrs with language disability) was at one of her academic intervention meetings. She had said that she's been left home alone(there is 5 adults including me who are always watching her) and the school reported this to DCF. I'm not upset they called because i would have done the same.
On to phase two: i receive notice from DCF that i am(for some reason just me) had allegations made and i needed to come in and "talk" about them. I go and i bring my ex father-in-law with me for moral support. We arrived and I spoke with the lady privately. She immediately goes on the offense, saying that she had "reliable sources" that stated that this was true. I explained to her my kiddo has poor communications skills and that she's being worked with to improve them. I explained that my kid has the tendency to say out landish things and 90% of what my kid says is her repeating a show or her imagination is running wild(she'll ask questions during math why people don't eat rock sandwiches or that she got into an argument with a butterfly.)
The worker then kicks me out of the room and questions grandpa. After they spoke i was allowed back in and she stated to me that as long as I cooperate I'll never have to see her again. Then she starts questioning me about my bf and goes on a tangent about he's using me because we have an age gap. I keep my cool and agreed to a drug test that never signed paperwork for.
Fastforward to 3 days later:
The worker requested that I and my bf were to come in to answer more questions. We get there and claims that she spoke to my neighbors and coworkers and had been informed i admitted to guilt. I know for a fact she's lying because she can't even figure out how to get to my apartment. She doesn't understand parking in my area and for her to get in the hallway she would need a door code. I know she's never been here but she accuses me of lying and demands i take the drugtest. I did and tested positive for marijuana. She also tried to get my bf to take one but he said he needed to talk to his lawyer. Then worker then gets huffy and says that if he walks out of the room she would count it as a positive test. He walked out anyway. He also only smokes pot. So after he leaves the worker states that she would require me to be on a two week safety plan where someone would check on me randomly 3 nights a week to report if I'm home. I agreed and signed. She nominated grandpa to be the one and that she would go to his house and get him to sign it.
As of today 1 month later:
No one has checked on me. No home visits. No follow up drugtest. She didn't even go to grandpa's at all. She's talked to none of the various collaterals. I haven't even gotten a letter or phone call. So wtf is going on?
Back in March my kid(6yrs with language disability) was at one of her academic intervention meetings. She had said that she's been left home alone(there is 5 adults including me who are always watching her) and the school reported this to DCF. I'm not upset they called because i would have done the same.
On to phase two: i receive notice from DCF that i am(for some reason just me) had allegations made and i needed to come in and "talk" about them. I go and i bring my ex father-in-law with me for moral support. We arrived and I spoke with the lady privately. She immediately goes on the offense, saying that she had "reliable sources" that stated that this was true. I explained to her my kiddo has poor communications skills and that she's being worked with to improve them. I explained that my kid has the tendency to say out landish things and 90% of what my kid says is her repeating a show or her imagination is running wild(she'll ask questions during math why people don't eat rock sandwiches or that she got into an argument with a butterfly.)
The worker then kicks me out of the room and questions grandpa. After they spoke i was allowed back in and she stated to me that as long as I cooperate I'll never have to see her again. Then she starts questioning me about my bf and goes on a tangent about he's using me because we have an age gap. I keep my cool and agreed to a drug test that never signed paperwork for.
Fastforward to 3 days later:
The worker requested that I and my bf were to come in to answer more questions. We get there and claims that she spoke to my neighbors and coworkers and had been informed i admitted to guilt. I know for a fact she's lying because she can't even figure out how to get to my apartment. She doesn't understand parking in my area and for her to get in the hallway she would need a door code. I know she's never been here but she accuses me of lying and demands i take the drugtest. I did and tested positive for marijuana. She also tried to get my bf to take one but he said he needed to talk to his lawyer. Then worker then gets huffy and says that if he walks out of the room she would count it as a positive test. He walked out anyway. He also only smokes pot. So after he leaves the worker states that she would require me to be on a two week safety plan where someone would check on me randomly 3 nights a week to report if I'm home. I agreed and signed. She nominated grandpa to be the one and that she would go to his house and get him to sign it.
As of today 1 month later:
No one has checked on me. No home visits. No follow up drugtest. She didn't even go to grandpa's at all. She's talked to none of the various collaterals. I haven't even gotten a letter or phone call. So wtf is going on?
