alienated_dad
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This is a complicated matter but I'll try to keep it simple. My ex-wife has alienated me from my 3 kids. I've been divorced for 5 yrs and we had a pretty decent relationship for yrs before our troubles began about a year and a half ago. Coincidentally, these troubles began when I got serious with my current wife of 4 months.
We recently went to court to resolve some child support issues and it turned into a trial to modify parent/child relationship during which I was slandered by her family in court. My attorney refused to fight fire with fire. She didnt attempt to defend or counter the accusations being hurled by opposing council because she "refused to participate in mud slinging" and that "the court would recognize that we were taking the high road." I have kept meticulous notes (18 pages worth) regarding instances where my ex denied my visitation and/or engaged in alienating tactics with my kids and she refused to mention ANY of the items on that list. Well, needless to say, we were slaughtered in court.
As a result, I am saddled with a huge child support obligation, was denied the option to carry the kids on my insurance plan, ordered to pay half of all extra curricular activities (at my ex-wifes discretion), am ordered to have supervised visits by the same family memberes who slandered me in court, and take multiple mandatory parenting classes as well as anger management classes.
This is ridiculous. I am a GOOD Dad! I love my kids with all my heart, but as a result of the brainwashing of my kids, I am afraid to spend time with them. Everything I do and everything I say is reported to their mother and is blown out of proportion, and I am worried about further legal issues.
I need help! I would like to file for a retrial or an appeal, but I dont know how to proceed with that. Unfortunately, with my new suport payments, I am financially unable to retain an attorney, but I make too much money to be a candidate for any of the local pro bono programs. I am on my own.
I am hurting everyday and am desperate to find relief in which I can carry on my relationship with my children without the manipulation from my ex. Any help or advice would be greately appreciated!
Kind Regards,
We recently went to court to resolve some child support issues and it turned into a trial to modify parent/child relationship during which I was slandered by her family in court. My attorney refused to fight fire with fire. She didnt attempt to defend or counter the accusations being hurled by opposing council because she "refused to participate in mud slinging" and that "the court would recognize that we were taking the high road." I have kept meticulous notes (18 pages worth) regarding instances where my ex denied my visitation and/or engaged in alienating tactics with my kids and she refused to mention ANY of the items on that list. Well, needless to say, we were slaughtered in court.
As a result, I am saddled with a huge child support obligation, was denied the option to carry the kids on my insurance plan, ordered to pay half of all extra curricular activities (at my ex-wifes discretion), am ordered to have supervised visits by the same family memberes who slandered me in court, and take multiple mandatory parenting classes as well as anger management classes.
This is ridiculous. I am a GOOD Dad! I love my kids with all my heart, but as a result of the brainwashing of my kids, I am afraid to spend time with them. Everything I do and everything I say is reported to their mother and is blown out of proportion, and I am worried about further legal issues.
I need help! I would like to file for a retrial or an appeal, but I dont know how to proceed with that. Unfortunately, with my new suport payments, I am financially unable to retain an attorney, but I make too much money to be a candidate for any of the local pro bono programs. I am on my own.
I am hurting everyday and am desperate to find relief in which I can carry on my relationship with my children without the manipulation from my ex. Any help or advice would be greately appreciated!
Kind Regards,