My stepson and his girlfriend, who live in tulsa, OK are having a child this month. They want to have the child adopted out. We want to adopt the child so they will have the opportunity to know their child even as we raise him as our own. He said he didn't have any problems with it, but his girlfriend wants the child adopted out to total strangers. My stepson agrees with her when she is around but when she is not there, he airs his desire to know his child. How do we stop them from having the child adopted by stangers and let us adopt instead? We're afraid we will never even see the child when he is born. She is due on the 20th of March and we only found out about this last week. We don't have much time to stop her from doing this.