caronbonbon
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My child is a product of an affair. Her father is in the military. 2 mos into my pregnancy he informs me he is married.. I tried to stay away from him but he didnt leave me alone. I had a little girl. She is now 4yrs old. When she was born he didnt acknowledge her legally. I was wrong for not taking immediate action in court. For 2 yrs our child was a secret. Hidden from his family. He then signed the acknowledgement of paternity for our child in 2009. In Nov of 2009, I took him to court for custody. I have custody and he gets two days of visitation. I allow him to have our child for more than 2 days becuase he is in the military and doesnt see her often. He doesnt pay child support but pays for childcare and buys her necessities when she is with him. For 2yrs he has had numerous affairs and has brought other women around our child. 2 mos ago I was informed he has another child from another women. The boy is 3 mos old. He now informs me he would like to bring our 4yr old child to his son's mothers home so he can spend time with his son and not deprive our daughter of spending time with him. I believe he is creating a very unhealthy and unsafe environment for our child and has confused her in the process. I need to know how I can protect her rights without depriving him of his child. I also dont agree with our child being around this other women. Im very afraid for my child. Please help....
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