- Jurisdiction
- Pennsylvania
My husband and his ex-girlfriend went to court as she wanted full custody of children. The judge ruled 50/50 custody, week 1 at dads and week 2 at moms.
Now, Mom is "pawning" off children to maternal grandmother at least twice a week on her weeks, sometimes more; she also asks us to watch the kids for her on a continual basis. I have all of these dates documented. Over the last 18 months (the entire 50/50 court ordered duration) we have watched the children an extra 22 days. This is now officially NOT 50/50, as we have them undoubtedly more.
When we have the kids, it is a concrete 7 day cycle at dads, no fluctuation in scheduling. However, when mom has them, the children bounce from her house to grandmoms and sometimes back at our house.
It is getting to the point of us wanting full or majority custody, would this hold up in court?
PS - mom works 2 jobs, one in the evening hence why the kids bounce around so much - but my husband also works 3 jobs, and I as the step mom watch these children majority of the time.
Now, Mom is "pawning" off children to maternal grandmother at least twice a week on her weeks, sometimes more; she also asks us to watch the kids for her on a continual basis. I have all of these dates documented. Over the last 18 months (the entire 50/50 court ordered duration) we have watched the children an extra 22 days. This is now officially NOT 50/50, as we have them undoubtedly more.
When we have the kids, it is a concrete 7 day cycle at dads, no fluctuation in scheduling. However, when mom has them, the children bounce from her house to grandmoms and sometimes back at our house.
It is getting to the point of us wanting full or majority custody, would this hold up in court?
PS - mom works 2 jobs, one in the evening hence why the kids bounce around so much - but my husband also works 3 jobs, and I as the step mom watch these children majority of the time.