Question about if this is true or not about mentally disabled and if someone could press charges for having sex with them?

[anon1089]

Jurisdiction

New York

Hi! I am diagnosed with high functioning autism and mild intellectual disability and by looking and talking to me you can't tell I have a disability. I started being open about my sexuality and want to know if this true or not because it's kind of making me nervous. I don't know if it's false info or not but someone said this about being intellectual disabled and hooking up. They called me mentally challenged by the way because I don't understand things and it was rude of him to say that because I know the truth about me. I heard it's legal for a typical guy to have sex with a girl that is mildly intellectual disabled like me I'm also high functioning autistic and any disability especially mild intellectual disability becomes a huge liability in family court. It is legal to date and have sex with practically anyone but in disagreements it could be said the disability was taken advantage of. It doesn't matter weather they are or not. In court it can be claimed regardless of whether or not it's true. How would the court be in charge of someone else's relationship? I don't understand! Like for example if someone thinks a girl is intellectually disabled and finds out a typical guy has sex with her they can't press charges to the guy and he could potentially go to prison for having sex with her. The intellectual challenged girl is over 18 and passed many sexual consent tests and could consent to sex but if someone reports the guy for having sex with her, the court could draw a different opinion on her competency. Why could this be untrue? That's what I heard. I've never heard of someone reporting a guy for having sex with a mild intellectual disabled girl especially if they are over 18 and can consent so is this false information?

 

[army judge]

Hi! I am diagnosed with high functioning autism and mild intellectual disability and by looking and talking to me you can't tell I have a disability. I started being open about my sexuality and want to know if this true or not because it's kind of making me nervous. I don't know if it's false info or not but someone said this about being intellectual disabled and hooking up.

I suggest you immediately CEASE thinking about or engaging in SEXUAL INTERCOURSE with anyone, until you've consulted psychologists and/or psychiatrists about the aforementioned dilemma you're encountering. If you're as mentally challenged as you describe, sexual INTERCOURSE something you shouldn't think about, much less a behavior you engage in with others!!!!!

Get the mental health help you appear to require, before your situation becomes much more than smoke, but escalates into an extremely hot, hot, hot conflagration!!!!

 

[adjusterjack]

The intellectual challenged girl is over 18 and passed many sexual consent tests and could consent to sex but if someone reports the guy for having sex with her, the court could draw a different opinion on her competency. Why could this be untrue?

It's not untrue. That's exactly what can happen. A parent, for example, can claim rape and the court will determine whether she had the mental capacity to consent.

I've never heard of someone reporting a guy for having sex with a mild intellectual disabled girl especially if they are over 18 and can consent

That you never heard of it happening doesn't mean it hasn't happened.

is this false information?

Not necessarily false. Results are based on circumstances.

 

[anon1089]

I suggest you immediately CEASE thinking about or engaging in SEXUAL INTERCOURSE with anyone, until you've consulted psychologists and/or psychiatrists about the aforementioned dilemma you're encountering. If you're as mentally challenged as you describe, sexual INTERCOURSE something you shouldn't think about, much less a behavior you engage in with others!!!!!

Get the mental health help you appear to require, before your situation becomes much more than smoke, but escalates into an extremely hot, hot, hot conflagration!!!!

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No you misunderstood. I went to many psychiatrists and they said I'm mentally fit to have sex. Someone just assumed I'm mentally challenged and made me way worse than I seem. Many doctors give me the pass to have sex. I'm not mentally challenged. I'm only autistic and I'm ok to have sex. It was someone else on another forum that made me seem more mentally challenged than I seem. What do you think now?

 

[anon1089]

It's not untrue. That's exactly what can happen. A parent, for example, can claim rape and the court will determine whether she had the mental capacity to consent.



That you never heard of it happening doesn't mean it hasn't happened.



Not necessarily false. Results are based on circumstances.

Ok but if they press charges it doesn't mean the court will say they can't consent? The parent will falsy believe they are more mentally challenged then they seemed and can get in trouble for making a false report. They can't falsely assure rape when it was truly consensual. The girl can tell the judge they are high functioning and understand what was happening. What do you think? The girl isn't mentally challenged the parents think they are when they are only autistic. It's honestly not fair for a disabled girl with a sex life that has to have a fear of a guy to be reported having sex with her. People say mentally disabled people have the right to a sex life. If she truly can consent by many doctors and psychologists, the parent can't claim rape if she's so high functioning. What do you think?

 

[adjusterjack]

I get it. But if you are writing hypothetically all I can say is that, yes, it could happen and you would just have to work your way through it.

Could you be a little more specific about what concerns you? Has something already happened?

 

[anon1089]

I get it. But if you are writing hypothetically all I can say is that, yes, it could happen and you would just have to work your way through it.

Could you be a little more specific about what concerns you? Has something already happened?

Yes what concerns me is I do not have an intellectual disability but someone on another forum inappropriately assumed that I have one because I do not have common sense or understanding what he's saying and he's falsey assuming that someone can report a guy for having sex with me but I heard that if I can turley consent and don't have a profound intellectual disability then they can't press charges and the person making the false charges for making me worse then I seem can get in trouble. The sex is consensual so they would be reporting out of prejudice because of a disability and assuming things. What do you think? People with disabilities have sex lives even casual sex without being reported! What are your thoughts on what I said now? Sorry you misunderstood before but that person made it seem like I was severe intellectual disabled and I'm no where near that.

 

[army judge]

Bottom line, if you are wise, you'd STOP DISCUSSING MATTERS YOU DESIRE TO REMAIN SECRET!

No adult human being should disclose matters he/she consider PRIVILEGED COMMUNICATION to gossips, busy bodies, trouble makers, or NOSY BUSY BODIES!!!

SHUT YOUR YAPPER, DON'T DISCLOSE YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS TO ANYONE.

WE ALL MUST PROTECT OUR PRIVACY!!!!!