weatherman55
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At the time of the divorce, I agreed to pay a loan and inturn she pay me money that she owes me. She agreed to that. I have been faithfully paying on the loan for many years now but she has not paid anything to me.. and refuses to pay anything due to the fact that she says she cant afford it.( either can I ) I feel that since I have been meeting my obligations, she should also. I decided to stop making payments on the loan until she starts meeting her obligations. She refuses to talk to me and work this out. I am forced to re-open this case so that this matter can be closed. I have no problem paying the rest of the loan but I feel that she needs to do what the court ordered her to do also. Is she in contempt of of court since she hasnt paid anything? Am I also in contempt of court since I stopped making payments? I made an effort.. she didnt. What do you suggest I do? I cant afford a lawyer to advize me.