hello i am in michigan my question is my wife filed for divorce we have maried since the 80s but been not living togeather as man and wife for over 13 yrs and have not talked in 3yrs our 3 children are grown and gone
she has a 7 yr old from another relationship and now she wants 1/2 of a 401k that i have from a job i have only been working for 10 yrs while we were married i had a diffrent job but was layed off in 2000 and in 2005 i got my pay out of 30,000 from that jobs retirement plan and it was spent on paying of credit cards and fixing up a house that i morgaged and shared living in she in the lower half and me in the upper aparti had actual custody of the kids then she was actually with her now 7 yr olds father in the lower half i ended up filing bankrupcy and lost every thing she moved on and so did i but now since she recieved a 150k inheirtance from her brother she is filing divorce and going after my 401k she has bought a home and still has a large sum in banks and my real question is i know the 401 is almost certianly going to be considerd marital property and split but what about the inheritince can that be concidered marital property i really dont want any of it but would like to use it as a bargining tool to keep my 401k the 401 is only worth 33k and she has 3 times that already in her possession i still work a 14 an hour job and need to work for 13 yrs more before i retire and even then with the full amount i still will not retire with much of a check and that 15 k she would get would most likely make me work till in to old to enjoy any kind of retirement while she already has more than i will ever recieve even if i work the rest of my life she never worked and still does not work so i am afraid she will appear broke to the courts if she does not have to disclose the money she has inheirted i cannot afford much of a attorney due to my obligations car payment rent bills ect and am representing (my self i know crazy) but hopfully cheaper i am in the process of doing the interrogorys she we already filed disclosure and the houseand inheirtiance was not on hers but according to HER attorney all my stuff is up for grabs any help will be quite welcome
she has a 7 yr old from another relationship and now she wants 1/2 of a 401k that i have from a job i have only been working for 10 yrs while we were married i had a diffrent job but was layed off in 2000 and in 2005 i got my pay out of 30,000 from that jobs retirement plan and it was spent on paying of credit cards and fixing up a house that i morgaged and shared living in she in the lower half and me in the upper aparti had actual custody of the kids then she was actually with her now 7 yr olds father in the lower half i ended up filing bankrupcy and lost every thing she moved on and so did i but now since she recieved a 150k inheirtance from her brother she is filing divorce and going after my 401k she has bought a home and still has a large sum in banks and my real question is i know the 401 is almost certianly going to be considerd marital property and split but what about the inheritince can that be concidered marital property i really dont want any of it but would like to use it as a bargining tool to keep my 401k the 401 is only worth 33k and she has 3 times that already in her possession i still work a 14 an hour job and need to work for 13 yrs more before i retire and even then with the full amount i still will not retire with much of a check and that 15 k she would get would most likely make me work till in to old to enjoy any kind of retirement while she already has more than i will ever recieve even if i work the rest of my life she never worked and still does not work so i am afraid she will appear broke to the courts if she does not have to disclose the money she has inheirted i cannot afford much of a attorney due to my obligations car payment rent bills ect and am representing (my self i know crazy) but hopfully cheaper i am in the process of doing the interrogorys she we already filed disclosure and the houseand inheirtiance was not on hers but according to HER attorney all my stuff is up for grabs any help will be quite welcome