ahadanfish
New Member
ould I oppose visitation? My Dad keeps threatening to take me to court and call children's service on me everytime I have plans with my kids or I want to pick them up. He believes reasonable visitation is 3-7 days twice a month. He expects me to hand them over anytime he wants me to. I have 4 children 7,6,2,and 5 months. but he only wants to see the older 2. He does not bring them home when I ask him to but when he has had his fill. He has called cps twice both times they came to my house then closed the case. He talks bad about us (the parents) in front of my kids and to my kids. I know because they tell me. The first 2 children are from a previous relationship he abandoned them and my fiance has been their Dad longer then bio father. My dad tells our kids that he (my fiance) is not their Dad. Not to call him Dad amongst other things. I am so tired of all this drama, I work all week and want to spend time with my kids on weekends the older 2 have missed out on so much fun because we make them go to grandpas so grandpa dont get mad. What do I do in this situation? I am ready to stop giving my dad his way and do what's right for my family unit. I have tried to talk to him but all he says is lets go to court. He tells me that I am keeping "his girls" from him while they are at his house. Tired in Tennessee