I found out a month ago that i have a three year old daughter. Now i have to pay her mother child support and I have her practically all the time. my wife babysits Monday through Friday and she stays the night Thursday through Monday. Is it right that I have to pay her the child support and take care of her throughout the week and weekend. Every time her mom comes to pick her up she throws a big fit should I be worried that there is some thing going on that she just wont tell me about. She tells me all the time that she don't want to go to her moms. Now I have a two year old and a nine month old and I have never seen a child throw a fit like that. PLEASE HELP. What should I do?