This case was born out if domestic violence where the mother fled to a shelter taking her children in 2007. In 2007 A court ordered a restraining order and to provide child support. The father did not pay any child support for five years. Their divorce was finalized in 2009, asset settlement did not take place. The father has not made any serious attempt through the court to see his children. Instead in 2012 and early 2014 he asked the court for a support reduction despite having not paid anything, except a few times in 2013. In both requests for support reduction the court refused the request and in fact, raised the support amount the second time. ( January 2014. Since then, the father has not paid anything those three months. When the father did see his children back in 2007, he would disappear for many months at a time, by leaving the country, therefore not seeing his kids at all. He hasn't seen them, mostly by his own actions since 2008. Now he is asking their mother to see them. Through her attorney, she ash said he must pay back child support before any arrangements can be made, and that he cannot arbitrarily set up visitations when he feels like it, the disappear for monts at a time and not follow through his visitation or support. Is there some way she can get rid of this loser who seems more interested in playing games than seeing or supporting his children? The children are currently 11, 9, and 8