I'm an older mother. I married a man that left his two children ages 9 and 12 to move with me to another state. He hardly ever called them. They are now 25 and 21.
This man I married eventually turns into an alcoholic, although I hoped that one day he will come to his senses. After the birth of our daughter, he gets worse and worse. He becomes a falling down drunk on his time off, not ever taking care of his daughter or spending time with her.
And now because of the court system, he knows that he can use her to inflict pain and torture. I took him to court with witnesses of his drinking and driving, his DUI police record, and the judge says he must love his daughter to put up $500 to hire an attorney. He moved in with another woman 60 miles away and the judge states that I have to go pick her up when he wants to visit her. My daughter goes crying and screaming every time. He is allowed to do with her as he sees fit. Leave her with anyone and go out drinking. Drink and abuse her. Tie her in the corner. He can do whatever he wants. Isn't that a grand thing.
What has happened to this world? All you men are liars, you don't care about the children, you care about your image to others. It's not about the kids, it's to get revenge on the mothers. God gave women the ability to give birth for a reason. No wonder the kids in this world are so messed up. God help us and the children. NO man loves a child the way it's mother can. You can say how much you love your children all you want but "it's not true". Your love is only half.
This man I married eventually turns into an alcoholic, although I hoped that one day he will come to his senses. After the birth of our daughter, he gets worse and worse. He becomes a falling down drunk on his time off, not ever taking care of his daughter or spending time with her.
And now because of the court system, he knows that he can use her to inflict pain and torture. I took him to court with witnesses of his drinking and driving, his DUI police record, and the judge says he must love his daughter to put up $500 to hire an attorney. He moved in with another woman 60 miles away and the judge states that I have to go pick her up when he wants to visit her. My daughter goes crying and screaming every time. He is allowed to do with her as he sees fit. Leave her with anyone and go out drinking. Drink and abuse her. Tie her in the corner. He can do whatever he wants. Isn't that a grand thing.
What has happened to this world? All you men are liars, you don't care about the children, you care about your image to others. It's not about the kids, it's to get revenge on the mothers. God gave women the ability to give birth for a reason. No wonder the kids in this world are so messed up. God help us and the children. NO man loves a child the way it's mother can. You can say how much you love your children all you want but "it's not true". Your love is only half.