would like some advice. the court order says my ex is to have visitation 2 days/week. the visitation hours are in the court order but my ex refuses to drop our child off at home. he says i will have to pick up our child or else he will stay the night and his wife will bring our child to school the following morning. i never agreed to pick our child up as its a half hour away and i dont want to spend the gas money. if i choose not to pick up my child will my ex be in contempt for not bringing him home at the CO time? what actions do i take if this occurs? also my ex pays 100/month in child support and our child is 8. i am not employed right now i am a student and just recently married. we have an upcoming date to determine child support as he just sued me for custody and visitation so he wouldnt have to pay child support. i agreed to the extra visitation (he also gets 3 weekends/month) but i do not want to have to pick up my child as in the past he has threatened me when i have come to his residence before to pick up our child