My fiance and I may be in a custody battle in the upcoming months. We just found out he may be the father of a four year old child. We have to establish paternity first, and if he is the father, we feel we need to fight for full custody. The mother is just plain trash. Has a criminal past, has five children by different men, two of which she does not have custody of. She is in abusive relationship after abusive relationship, her friends are all druggies and jailbirds, she is just bad news. It's hard enough to live with the fact that my fiance was able to have a drunken one night stand with such trash but to think a part of him may be living with her is upsetting. Her new husband has been arrested three times within this past year, one of which consisted of him holding her hostage! .And yes, she is a welfare queen. Never holds a job, lives off the child support of four different men. It's people like her that our judicial system seems to protect. What do you think our chances are of eventually gaining full custody? There have been two men prior to my fiance tested for paternity. She has waited four years to have this done!!!