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I am in my late 40s and am on SSI & SSD. I have renal failure and in need of a Kidney Transplant. So am not able to work. I have three biological children and one step child, whom I raised since day one. I love ALL of my kids and do NOT mind paying financial support to them at all. The State of New Jersey Child Support takes my SSD and SSI subtracts what I am SUPPOSED to get from SSD leaving me with only 400.00 a month. Okay that's what it is, but I am in the arrears because that was not enough money to cover the given amount to pay. But I was paying as much as they took from my checks, and thank god that kept me out of jail. Like I said I do not mind helping my children, 25, 18, 11 and step child(my Daughter) 13. I want to stop the child support for the 18 year old, who has a man and a child on her own. Besides her getting 1/2 of my check, she calls me for money and I give it to her, 100.00 here,150.00 there, it is just to much. I have other bills and responsibilities too. I just need some help on how to go about this. I tried to talk to the mother, but I am just to weak and sick to argue with her. Its her way or no way. I just cant do it anymore.