On 3/7/13 My husband and I were married. I have 2 children that are not his and my question pertains to my oldest child 14 yr old son. His biological father has never really paid child support and years can go by with no contact. MY husband is currently incarcerated in WCC in Shelton, Wa for non aggravated murder and is serving a sentence of 60 yrs. He's filed and appeal in '09 and has served 13 yrs of his sentence I have known him since I was 18 yrs old and he and my son have bonded over the years. How do I file an petition for adoption of my son? And what are the chances the adoption will be successful due to his charge and current sentence?