My boyfriend is currently having troubles with his ex. They were never married and have an 8 year old daugther. She lives with her mother in NY. The mother has cut off all contact with us and has told the 8 year old that she is not allowed to talk to her dad, me, or her 2 year old sister. The mother has also been telling the little girl derogatory statements about her dad, such as he doesn't love her and he only cares about our daughter. We know this because we spoke to his little girl this weekend and she told us everything her mother has been saying about us. We do support and send her whatever she needs. This is a constant thing whenever the mother gets mad, but this time is worse. There are is also an issue of the mother dating a married man that has threaten to cause harm to the little girl, i.e. kidnapping. They have never went to court to officially get an agreement over the custody. So we're just wondering what we should do because we're both concerned.....HELP