I have sole legal and physical custody since the divorce 2 years ago. I wish to move out of state. Nothing in my court orders stipulates moving/not being able to move. He has the generic "reasonable, flexible visitation" but has chosen to not ever see my daughter since she was born almost 2 years ago. He is now saying he won't let me move unless I meet his demands (give back wedding rings, terminate his parental rights so he doesn't pay child support). Can I move? Isn't he blackmailing me? If I move is it kidnapping?