I am a single dad that has shared custody, physcal and legal. The problem is that although i have my son 4 nights every week, my son does not want to go to his mothers anymore. He has ask to talk to the judge himself becasue he did last year. The problem, he ask to talk to the judge but he does not want the judge to tell his mom what he says because last year after he did, she was mean to him and so was her boyfriend after she found out what he told the judge. I can not afford an attorney and I still pay a lot of support. Is it possable to request he talk to the judge, and request he not disclose to his mom anything? I don't need to know becasue I know already know but if she finds out, she will again make his life misrable. I have over a year jurnal to prove she is neglectful and letters from school teachers showing he has problems when at her home but can I request this and her not find out what they talk about? Please help me, I have court in 2 months and I just can not afford a lawyer. Thanks