Recently i have come out and disclosed to my family that one of my older siblings molested me when i was between 5 and 9 and he decided to post things publicly on social media telling everyone things that aren't true about me in order to make me look like i made up what i told family members. I confronted him in 2011 about what he did and he admitted to me in an email that what he did was wrong and he was partially responsible for the way things turned out in my life. Such as never getting married or having children. I feel as though he has abused me all over again by saying things that are causing me problems at work. He even posted a pic of my company and the name of the Human Resource Manager telling people to call and make complaints against me to cause me problems at work. I know people at work heard seen his posts and the pics that are telling people am a crack head and calling me liar. He is 7 and a half yrs older then me and claims his abuse of me as a 5 yr old was him just experimenting like all kids do. Well i never did that. He claims he knew he was already gay and didn't know how to handle it. He says you act like i was some kind of adult when it happened. Then he goes on saying he was just a 12 yr old. Well either way it wasn't a one time thing it lasted till i was older enough to realize this is normal stuff that brothers do. It really has affected me during my life but more so in recent years. I don't know if i can get something from him because he did admit partial responsibility. He is a retired Cop who has had his share of problems with how he treats people. Am more upset with his public posts and pictures making people reply to his posts thinking because he's my brother that they must be true. I haven't tried to defend myself to people who we both know because i don't feel i need to explain my innocence. If there's anyone who can help me i would greatly appreciate it. Sincerely yours