Nascosta23
New Member
Hey there,
I live in the state of NYC and I just gave birth to a baby boy in December. The child's father and I broke up in October as he was trying to force both adoption and abortion on me while I was pregnant and was mentally and physically abusive towards me because he wanted to be with another woman. I want to file for sole custody and child support. However, I do not want to share custody or allow visitation to the father because of past abuse history. If visitation should happen, I would want it to be supervised and have him mentally evaluated first before laying any kind of hands on my child.
What can I possibly do? As now he is saying the child is not his and is making me miserable via text and phone call. Also, if i wanted to file for a restraining order, do i have the grounds to do so even though i never reported any of the past abuse? I fear for my own safety and the safety of my child due to past abusive history not only with him, but his family aswell who have threatened me.
I live in the state of NYC and I just gave birth to a baby boy in December. The child's father and I broke up in October as he was trying to force both adoption and abortion on me while I was pregnant and was mentally and physically abusive towards me because he wanted to be with another woman. I want to file for sole custody and child support. However, I do not want to share custody or allow visitation to the father because of past abuse history. If visitation should happen, I would want it to be supervised and have him mentally evaluated first before laying any kind of hands on my child.
What can I possibly do? As now he is saying the child is not his and is making me miserable via text and phone call. Also, if i wanted to file for a restraining order, do i have the grounds to do so even though i never reported any of the past abuse? I fear for my own safety and the safety of my child due to past abusive history not only with him, but his family aswell who have threatened me.