Question About Paternity

[CURIOUS74]

Questions About Peternity

I HAVE A COUPLE OF QUESTIONS REGARDING PETERNITY TESTING, AND POLICY,OR RULES IN NYS

IS THERE A TIME LIMIT HOW HOW LONG A PATERNITY TEST SHOULD BE DONE REGARDLESS OF AGE OF CHILD?

CAN A PATERNITY TEST BE DONE IF THERE IS NO PERSON NAMED ON A BIRTH CERTIFICATE,BUT NAME ON OTHER NYS DOCUMENTS?

CAN AN ADULT FEMALE LIKE MYSELF ,FILE OR SEEK AN ATTORNEYS HELP ON GETTING A PATERNITY TEST DONE ON AN ALEGDED FATHER?

IS IT ILLEGAL FOR A MOTHER TO NOT LIST WHO THE FATHER IS ON A BIRTH CERTIFICATE IN NYS,BUT PUT A NAME ON ANOTHER NYS DOCUMENT OF THAT CHILD?

AND
IS IT ILLEGAL TO OBTAIN HAIR SAMPLES,CIGGERETTE BUTTS AND USE THAT TO PERSONALLY DO THIS WITH OUT ONE'S KNOWLAGE?
AND

IN NYS,ARE PATERNITY TESTINGS DONE IN A TRIAD FORM,OR CAN I AND ONLY THE ALEGED FATHER BE TESTED?

REASON FOR MY QUESTIONS...MY MOTHER WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY FINDING HIM,SHE SIMPLY STATES IT NONE OF MY BUSINESS!!!I AM AN ADULT FEM( MARRIED WITH CHILD FOR OVER 15YRS) WHO HAS A LIFE LONG BATTLE WITH MY MOTHER ABOUT WHO MY FATHER IS/WAS OR WHAT EVER .I NEVER SAW,MET HIM,I ONLY HAVE 2 NAMES TO GO ON...(MORE ON THAT LATER)
I BEEN ASKING MY MOTHER SINCE I WAS A LIL GIRL,AND WAS RAISED WITH OUT HIM,"NO SUPPORT",NOR ANY "FATHERLY THINGS",LITERALLY TO THIS DAY SHE KEPT HIM OUTTA MY LIFE FOR HER OWN PERSONAL REASONS WHICH I AM AND HAD PAID THE PRICE.I HAVE BEEN GETTING CONFLICTING STORIES BY MY MOTHER ABOUT HIM LIKE NAMES,AND WHERE HE WENT AND SO ON,...IT'S ALL A BUNCH OF STORIES! ACTUALLY GREW UP WITH OUT HIM AND ONLY HAD A MOTHER WHO HAD A DRINKIN PROBLEM THE WHOLE TIME AS I GREW UP ALONG WITH MY OTHER SIBLINGS,(KEEP IN MIND MY OTHER SIBLINGS HAVE THE SAME FATHER TOGEHTER,ME BEING THE STANGE IN THE FAMILY!) ANYHOW NOT BEING ABLE TO LOOK FOR MY "DADDY" IN A SENCE DURRING THOS TIMES FOR HELP AND NOW I AM A TAD OVER 30,AND I GET MAD AS HELL STILL THAT I DIDNT HAVE HELP OR SUPPORT THEN AND NOW,AND AT THE SAME TIME,THINKING AS THIS COMES TO MY MIND AS I GRE UP..I WAS BORN IN A SENCE TO FINANCIALLY HELP HER RAISE THE OTHER GIRLS SHE HAD WHICH WERE SMALL,SHE NEVER WORKED A DAY IN HER LIFE EVER!!!.
I AM STILL SEEKING ON WHO THIS PERSON IS THAT IS MY BIOLOGICAL FATHER,AND I REFUSE TO GIVE UP!!!!AND MY MOTHER KNOWS IT,WE HAVE BEEN ASTRAINGED FOR MANY YEARS JUST BECAUSE OF MY WANTING TO KNOW!!!
I NEED TO KNOW WHO AND WHAT I AM,REGARDING EVERYTHING ABOUT "ME"AS AN INDIVIDUAL LIKE DNA,ANY HEALTH ISSUES,WHERE I GET MY PRETTYNESS AND UGLYNESS FROM THAT I HAVE AND SO ON,I AM DEPRESSED MOST OF THE TIME,ESPECIALLY DURRING THE HOLIDAYS THATS FOR SURE.
MY SIBLINGS DONT KNOW MUCH CAUSE THEY WERE TOOOO LITTLE AT THE TIME TO KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON WHEN I CAME AROUND ,BUT MY OLDEST SIBLING SEEMS TO KNOW CAUSE SHE WAS OLDER AND SEEN MORE...BUT AGAIN..MOM DENIES EVERYTHING. AND THEY TO ARE ASTRAINGED.

I NEED TO KNOW WHERE I CAN GO WITH THIS LEGALLY. I HAVE 2 NAMES OF WHO HE MAYBE,BUT ONE IS DENIYING IT TILL HE TURNS BLUE IN THE FACE,NOT TO MENTION HE EVEN SAID YES I HAD AN AFFAIR WITH YOUR MOTHER WHILE HE WAS MARRIED BEFORE I WAS BORN(WIFEY KNEW EVERYTHING FROM DAY ONE AND STILL TOGETHER AFTER ME-GO FIGURE)THE OTHER ONE I DONT KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT IT..I CONTACTED HIM BY MAIL AND HAD ONE CONVERSATION,AND EMAILED HIS DAUGHTER WHO HER NAME IS THE SAME AS MINE .....BUT NOTHING STILL

I REALLY NEED TO KNOW IF I CAN LEGALLY DO A PETERNITY TEST EVEN THOUGH I AM AN ADULT WHO SEEKING CLOSURE ON THIS SITUATION.

 

[seniorjudge]

Cut off your caps lock and try again.

Nobody can read what you posted without getting a headache.:no:

 

[muggsyj]

This is not Legal Advice!


I must admit this was quite hard to follow because of the print but reading between the lines, it seems your Mother has all the answers you seek.
Is she avoiding telling you I am guessing yes by the way you are reacting.
Your Mother, Maybe keeping the real location of you maternal father a secret for this reason as follows: You quoted you got two names and already have contacted one and then his daughter?? What is that all about You are 30 ish years old have some decorum here, to invade in to someone else's life and disrupt it because of a opinion. Can you imagine what his family think and must be going through and all the stress he is feeling and he may not be the one.

I suggest you stop clutching at straws and try to settle yourself down, make peace not war and all will be revealed in good time. When your mother feels you are emotionally ready to cope with this situation, I am sure she will give you the answers you desire.

Good luck.

 

[seniorjudge]

Thanks for your interpretation.

Hope your headache is better!