thunder44
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- Jurisdiction
- Pennsylvania
I am a minor in the state of Pennsylvania. My mother is getting a divorce from my alcoholic abusive father. This divorce is intensely needed and I fully support my mother freeing herself from his fiscal and emotional abuse. This main issue is my four-year-old sister and the custody regarding her. She doesn't want to live with him and doesn't enjoy being around him as he is rather neglectful and unkind to her. However, to drag my mother further through the mud he is requesting 50/50 custody or full custody of her. This is terrifying to me. He is unfit to parent and will repeat the same abuse he did to me, to her. He verbally abused me as a child and neglected me leaving everything to my mother whilst drinking to excess and coming home intoxicated regularly. When I was 8 or 9 years of age I distinctly remember him touching my bottom, thighs, and legs over my clothes while I was in bed and he was moderately drunk. I didn't want it to happen and never told my mom because I was concerned I would add fuel to the fire of an already awful marriage. They constantly fought and I was worried telling her would worsen that. I have never told her the extent of his abuse, only some parts. She has suffered greatly and losing her youngest child to this person would kill her emotionally. I need to know what to do. How do I prove he did this? Will he have to register as a sex offender? Would I have to tell my mother or just a therapist who would testify on my behalf? Could he get split custody even with all these offenses?