My ex has custody of our three children. I have visitations from friday at 6pm until sunday 6pm every other weekend. I was living with a friend at the time the custody arrangement was made so visitation is to be at my mom's and the children are not to leave the county. I live in a different county. I have my own place now and would like my children to be spending the weekends with me at my place. My ex is absolutely against it. His attorney was my landlord and I'm wondering if there is a conflict of interest there?
Also, he is on a huge power trip with this custody issue. It's not about the children it's about him and revenge. In the custody papers he got granted that a friend of mine is not to be around my children because my children's behavior is because of this individual. That's where the revenge part kicks in, because I dated this gentleman after my ex left me and my ex was extremely jealous. His live in girlfriend just lost custody of her child to the state. Her daughter, who is 9, choked my 11 year old daughter and now this child is in foster care.
I really want to have my kids with me at my place because due to work I can't always be there on fridays at 6. Sometimes I can't come in until Saturday and that eats me up. I pay child support and I pay rent, If I dont work, nothing gets paid. I also have to catch a ride to go see my children because I'm recently without a car. When it rains it pours.
Also, he is on a huge power trip with this custody issue. It's not about the children it's about him and revenge. In the custody papers he got granted that a friend of mine is not to be around my children because my children's behavior is because of this individual. That's where the revenge part kicks in, because I dated this gentleman after my ex left me and my ex was extremely jealous. His live in girlfriend just lost custody of her child to the state. Her daughter, who is 9, choked my 11 year old daughter and now this child is in foster care.
I really want to have my kids with me at my place because due to work I can't always be there on fridays at 6. Sometimes I can't come in until Saturday and that eats me up. I pay child support and I pay rent, If I dont work, nothing gets paid. I also have to catch a ride to go see my children because I'm recently without a car. When it rains it pours.