I need to know what you think! I live in NY with my 5 month old daughter. Her father recently went back to FL and we have both filed for custody. He wants our daughter to fly to FL once a month for a week (by his mother which is another story!). I do not think that is reasonable, especially since he does not have a job and he lives with his mother. I think that shipping an infant back and forth like that is very unstable. Does anyone know how the courts normally handle this? Thank you!