Ok please try not to be judgemental, but my Husband of 6 yrs had a one night stand. It happen in january of 2004. We have been trying to get pregnant for 6 yrs now. I am unable to conceive at this time. Actually I got pregnant in January of 2005 but lost it. That was my 1st time ever getting pregnant. Anyway, my husband finally tells me in that he had this one night stand right before i lost the baby. Maybe it was not meant to be I thought. Well this girl had 10 men do a paternity test. One was my husbands friend. Today we find out it is my Husbands CHild. My husband is stating she wants to have him pay insurance for the child. She also stated the only reason she had everyone do a paternity test is because she wants the man she is seeing now to adopt the child. I want to know if we never see it and never want the child over what are his rights. In our state do you have to pay child support even though you do not want to see the child. I also went to the court website and this is the second time she has done this but the last guy is in prison. It sounds like Jerry is going to come out of my closet. We make over what a normal family income makes. We have spent thousands on infertility test. I am so upset and so damn determine to keep the marriage going, but i do not think i can have this child in my life. My husband told her our situation and told her we would even pay her to adopt the child who will be one in October. I do not know what are rights are. Please help! Am i Crazy