krisdawson
Banned
I was married in CA, divorced in OK. Child custody agreement is in OK which grants me full and complete custody (he has no visitation rights and a no contact order). He waved all rights to contest the custody and divorce during the proceedings. After the children were born he abandoned us and it took me 2 years to find him to serve him divorce papers. I found him in the military brig for selling drugs to his unit. He is now demanding to see my kids, who are 6. After 4 1/2 years of not paying child support he started to pay current, but not past due, support. He stopped paying recently and I have had no contact with him since Aug 2010. He was physically abusive during our marriage, up to the point I was 6weeks pregnant. I have feared for my children's safety and basically been on the run or in hiding for the last 4 years. I got remarried a year ago and my husband would like to adopt the girls and allow me to stop hiding. My children are getting to the age they are asking questions (why do you, daddy, and us all have different last names? How come you had kids before you got married? etc) and I would like to take care of this ASAP and without my ex knowing.