my 17 year old daughter

[sfemt2]

my daughter accused her boyfriend of assault last august when she was 16. while the officer was getting information she decided she didnt want to press charges and threatened to run away from home if i tried to make her stop seeing this guy. at the time she was 16 and he was 17. so i sent her out of state to live with her dad. earlier this year he sent her back to live with me after him and his girlfriend broke up because he said he couldnt provide around the clock supervision for her. within 4 days of being back and living with me and my parents i found out she had been sneaking around with this kid. when she was caught i tried to ground her and she moved out of the house and in with him. 2 weeks later she turned 17. earlier this summer she again accused him of getting violent with her. by then i no longer lived with my parents but they agreed to let her live there so she would have around the clock supervision. 2 weeks later she moved back in with the boyfriend who is living with his dad. she doesnt want to live with my parents and i dont trust her to live with me and she wouldnt follow my rules if she did. number 1 being get rid of the boyfriend who also just got out of jail and has a drug problem. how much responsibility do i have to her at this point and how is it going to affect me legally if she gets into legal trouble? she's all about being independent unless she needs money and then she expects me to fork it out when she doesnt have any.

 

[jharris352]

You need to look into taking her to Juvenile court as an Unruly child before she ends up in real trouble like pregnant, on drugs, or having committed a crime with this creep. The Juvenile Court will help you get a hold of her and get rid of him. All you have to do to him is send the police over to him and tell him he is not allowed to see your minor daughter.

 

[BayState]

my daughter accused her boyfriend of assault last august when she was 16. while the officer was getting information she decided she didnt want to press charges and threatened to run away from home if i tried to make her stop seeing this guy. at the time she was 16 and he was 17. so i sent her out of state to live with her dad. earlier this year he sent her back to live with me after him and his girlfriend broke up because he said he couldnt provide around the clock supervision for her. within 4 days of being back and living with me and my parents i found out she had been sneaking around with this kid. when she was caught i tried to ground her and she moved out of the house and in with him. 2 weeks later she turned 17. earlier this summer she again accused him of getting violent with her. by then i no longer lived with my parents but they agreed to let her live there so she would have around the clock supervision. 2 weeks later she moved back in with the boyfriend who is living with his dad. she doesnt want to live with my parents and i dont trust her to live with me and she wouldnt follow my rules if she did. number 1 being get rid of the boyfriend who also just got out of jail and has a drug problem. how much responsibility do i have to her at this point and how is it going to affect me legally if she gets into legal trouble? she's all about being independent unless she needs money and then she expects me to fork it out when she doesnt have any.

You are totally responsible for your MINOR CHILD'S care and wellbeing. Why didn't you obtain a restraining order against this guy? Why are you allowing your CHILD to run things?

If this were my Daughter I would have placed he in a mental health facility to determine why she was allowing someone to abuse her. She needs help.