Stackhouse2
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Hello,
I'm 21 years old and my younger sister, who is eleven, has indicated that she wants to come live with me. Our parents got a divorce last January, and at that point our already distant/paycheck parent of a father became a totally non-existent paycheck father. He is not a part of my life, or that of my two younger sisters. (The second of the younger sisters is almost 18, so she is "almost free", as she says.
My mother, who has full custody of the eleven year old, is and has been for as long as I can remember, an emotionally and mentally abusive parent. I know that on at least two occasions, CPS has been called on her. Once less than a year ago. I don't know by whom, or what their reasons were, but I do know that it happened. The first time they showed up at our front door, and the second time I got a phone call from another family member (aunt) who had been contacted.
I am living in Arizona, where I moved shortly after I was "free", from Pennsylvania where my mother and sisters still reside. I have a stable, well paying job, and despite the abuse (and thanks to therapy), I am emotionally and mentally stable, and in my opinion, far more fit to raise my sister than my mother is.
My sister is currently doing the online schooling thing, and previously she was homeschooled. She has never been to public school (I was homeschooled from fourth grade till graduation). I am able and willing to continue the online schooling, or to resume homeschooling my sister, so removing my sister from PA to AZ would not be a problem in that regard.
My questions are:
How can I prove that my mother is not mentally or emotionally fit to continue raising my sister?
How can I ensure that I get custody of my sister?
Would the child support my father pays my mother be redirected to me if I were to get custody?
What steps would I need to take to make this happen?
Thank you.
SH1
I'm 21 years old and my younger sister, who is eleven, has indicated that she wants to come live with me. Our parents got a divorce last January, and at that point our already distant/paycheck parent of a father became a totally non-existent paycheck father. He is not a part of my life, or that of my two younger sisters. (The second of the younger sisters is almost 18, so she is "almost free", as she says.
My mother, who has full custody of the eleven year old, is and has been for as long as I can remember, an emotionally and mentally abusive parent. I know that on at least two occasions, CPS has been called on her. Once less than a year ago. I don't know by whom, or what their reasons were, but I do know that it happened. The first time they showed up at our front door, and the second time I got a phone call from another family member (aunt) who had been contacted.
I am living in Arizona, where I moved shortly after I was "free", from Pennsylvania where my mother and sisters still reside. I have a stable, well paying job, and despite the abuse (and thanks to therapy), I am emotionally and mentally stable, and in my opinion, far more fit to raise my sister than my mother is.
My sister is currently doing the online schooling thing, and previously she was homeschooled. She has never been to public school (I was homeschooled from fourth grade till graduation). I am able and willing to continue the online schooling, or to resume homeschooling my sister, so removing my sister from PA to AZ would not be a problem in that regard.
My questions are:
How can I prove that my mother is not mentally or emotionally fit to continue raising my sister?
How can I ensure that I get custody of my sister?
Would the child support my father pays my mother be redirected to me if I were to get custody?
What steps would I need to take to make this happen?
Thank you.
SH1